Love doesn't stand in line and wait for more love from someone else, it gives all of itself until it has no more, asks God for more, and keeps giving what it receives until it is depleted, then begins again. Love doesn't wonder when it will be filled back up because serving is the act… Continue reading Love is Counterintuitive
I used to want to be someone else. Anyone else. I guess at some point we probably all do. Taller. Thinner. A natural brunette like my sister. Pretty. In elementary school I wanted to wear anything besides the lilac corduroy pants mom bought for me. In junior high I wanted a GUESS jean jacket. In… Continue reading Love Your Selfie
Has your life ever come to an end punctuation that you weren't quite expecting? Haven't you been so sure of one thing, only to, at the turn of a phrase, been suddenly unsure, and ended your sentence with a question mark instead of an exclamation point?! (Okay - that's the word nerd in me.) More… Continue reading When the Unexpected Happens
Good evening. It's been a while since I've put my thoughts to paper. Tonight has me feeling reflective. So I thought I'd write til my thoughts are exhausted. I pray you are well, wherever you are. This was the kind of week that had no breaks. None. Every day was long. Tuesday I spent almost… Continue reading My Thoughts on Raising Kids After Divorce
When I was alone or felt I was alone as a child, I couldn’t stand it. The minute the door shut and the lights went out I felt like the walls came alive and a living, retching monster might come forth at any given moment and find in me a tasty snack. Often when I… Continue reading Oh, Turn Your…
It's increasingly difficult to be over 35 and dating. Swipe left? Swipe right? What IS this? We've been dumbed down to 1 second glances now? Who's your type? What's your "sign"? What's your idea of a good first date? Do you drink: Never, Often, or On Social Occasions? Are these REALLY the first things we… Continue reading Swipe Right? Dating in 2018
A new dad waiting for his first baby to be born understands the value of a minute. A new dad hearing that baby's first cry understands the value of a moment. Lately I've been pondering the difference between minutes and moments. I don't know about at your house, but at my house we seem to… Continue reading Minutes or Moments?
It would make good sense for me to begin a book on navigating life post-divorce with the story of my ex-husband's infidelity. But how could I possibly write that without first telling you that I have been the "other woman" - twice?
At the end of the day you don't hear my prayers for the ones I love who are agonizing over broken hearts. At the end of the day you don't feel my tears brought on by self-inflicted wounds. At the end of the day you don't see the ring with 4 corners where the fighters… Continue reading When the Day Settles
When you love her - go get her.